A Life of Purpose • A Legacy of Faith
The Intentional Father (Chapter 16)
A Life of Purpose • A Legacy of Faith
“Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love.” — 1 Corinthians 16:13–14
🔑 OPEN IT
- What does it mean to be an intentional father rather than a passive one?
- Who most influenced your understanding of fatherhood growing up?
- What legacy do you hope to leave for your children?
- How do purpose and faith shape the daily decisions of a father?
Questions and Answers
1. What is the central message of “The Intentional Father”?
• Intentional fatherhood is about living with purpose, direction, and spiritual leadership, not drifting through parenting.
• Fathers are called to lead their families toward God, not merely provide for them.
Parallel Verses:
• Joshua 24:15 – “As for me and my house…”
• Deuteronomy 6:6–9 – Teach diligently
• Psalm 127:1 – The Lord builds the house
2. How does a father lead with purpose?
• By setting a spiritual direction for the home
• By modeling obedience and faith
• By discipling children intentionally
Parallel Verses:
• Proverbs 22:6
• Psalm 78:4–7
• 1 Corinthians 11:1
3. What does it mean to love with intent?
• Love is active, present, and shaping
• Fathers must speak life, listen deeply, and build trust
Parallel Verses:
• Ephesians 6:4
• Colossians 3:21
• 1 Corinthians 13:6–7
4. What legacy should an intentional father leave?
• A legacy of faith, identity, and spiritual strength
• Passing truth from one generation to the next
Parallel Verses:
• Psalm 145:4
• 2 Timothy 1:5
• Hebrews 12:1
5. What biblical themes define intentional fatherhood?
Key Themes:
- Be the Light → Matthew 5:14–16
- Teach Diligently → Deuteronomy 6:6–9
- Work with Excellence → Colossians 3:23–24
- Depend on God → John 15:5
- Finish Strong → 2 Timothy 4:7
Key Truths from Chapter 16
- Intentional fatherhood is spiritual leadership in action
- Love must be deliberate, not assumed
- Legacy is built through daily faithfulness, not occasional effort
- Fathers are called to reflect God’s heart to their children
A father’s influence is not measured in moments—but in the direction he sets for generations.
APPLY IT
Practical Actions for Fathers
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Start Each Day with God
- Pray, read Scripture, and set spiritual focus
- Matthew 6:33
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Be Present on Purpose
- Your time is your greatest investment
- Psalm 90:12
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Create Lasting Traditions
- Build rhythms that point to God
- Exodus 12:26–27
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Encourage and Build Up
- Speak life and celebrate growth
- 1 Thessalonians 5:11
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Point Them to Christ
- The ultimate goal is not success—but salvation
- John 14:6
KEY SCRIPTURES
- Joshua 24:15
- Ephesians 6:4
- Deuteronomy 6:6–9
- 1 Corinthians 16:13–14
- Colossians 3:23–24
- 2 Timothy 4:7
FINAL REFLECTION
“Be intentional today. Change a life forever.”
Raise sons who know:
Who they are • Whose they are
CORE THEMES
IDENTITY • PURPOSE • BLESSING • LEGACY
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